Kalimana Film Stories: Blog https://www.kalimana.com/blog en-us Tennessee based videographer and photographer, serving Murfreesboro, Franklin, Nashville, Brentwood, and beyond! kalli@kalimana.com (Kalimana Film Stories) Mon, 16 Mar 2020 07:04:00 GMT Mon, 16 Mar 2020 07:04:00 GMT https://www.kalimana.com/img/s/v-12/u275659387-o765118971-50.jpg Kalimana Film Stories: Blog https://www.kalimana.com/blog 72 120 30 birthy things from your Middle Tennessee birth photographer-videographer https://www.kalimana.com/blog/2017/2/30-birthy-things-from-your-middle-tennessee-birth-photographer-videographer 30 "BIRTHY" THINGS

As someone who documents birth, my job is to observe.  Watching events unfold, I've witnessed many breathtaking stories - each different & unique! Today, though, I want to share a few commonalities. 


  • Labor can be spiritually uplifting (for any belief).
  • You might deviate from the plan and opt for an epidural at 3cm.  It's OKAY.  You researched it.  And though it wasn't plan A, you chose it.  That's what matters.
  • Labor can be enjoyed - even without medication! You will likely smile and likely even laugh (between contractions).
  • FAST/SHORT labor isn't always better.  Sometimes slow & steady is preferred.
  • This labor & delivery might be completely different from your previous experience(s).
  • If there is a chance you'll prefer family to wait to join you until hours after delivery, it's always best to let them know beforehand - being clear about your desires.
  • A VBAC turned C-section is STILL breathtakingly beautiful.
  • Your little one might need help.  The room may fill with doctors & nurses (experienced with these situations), but you'll be in good hands. (And we know how to work around them ;) )
  • If you choose to, you can labor in the hospital for several days without requiring pitocen to strengthen contractions - just be sure to have a fabulous support system, a dedicated doula, and a strong resolve.
  • Walls come falling down when that man you love becomes a dad.  Be prepared to feel like you never truly knew them.
  • Women become superheroes in your eyes after watching them give birth to your child.  Be prepared to feel like you never truly knew her.
  • 3 things to chat about with your unborn baby:  labor under 10 hours; no coming during rush hour; and (for the photog!) tell him or her to join us around sunrise or sunset. haha
  • Older siblings may be disinterested in their new sibling (at first) - especially if younger than 3.  But that's ok. They'll come around.
  • The cord being wrapped (around wrists or neck) is much more common than you may think.  Doctors and midwives know what to do with cords - they unwrap cords often.
  • Waiting outside the operating room doors while she is getting prepped for a C-section may be the scariest thing you've done. Keep breathing. She's in good hands.
  • They say that after you've had 3 kids, it just gets easier with the 4th (and each after that).  They might be dead wrong.
  • You might have a bowel movement during labor and/or pushing. Maybe several. And you'll care about it a lot less than you'd imagine. And so will we.  Poop happens. ;)
  • Moms, dad might not stay right by your side every moment.  He might need to keep a distance for his (and your) own good.
  • Dads, she might not want you by her side the whole time. She might want someone else (who is present) holding her hand instead.  Or she might want you by her side, but in silence (even if she told you beforehand to keep talking to her).   You are still needed.
  • On the other hand, she also might want you by her side 24/7 - you may have to pry your hands free in order to go to the bathroom.  Remember that your doula isn't just for her, but for you too.  Know you are helpful & needed - no matter what she ends up ask you to do or not do.
  • You may discover new facts about your baby after delivery.  You'll be prepared to learn about them. As their parent, you'll rise to the challenges, and love more than you ever imagined!
  • Grandparents can be wise (and, in granddad's case, even entertaining) members of the birth team.
  • Watching your child wake up to meet a new sibling might just be the sweetest thing ever.
  • Sometimes when a mom feels intuitively that baby is coming too fast to get to the hospital, she might actually be right.  And if she is, don't stress. Get support. Call who you need to. You've got this.
  • You might just look at him (and him at you) at some point during labor and immediately kick everyone else out of the room for a while. And that's ok (great)! :)
  • If you want it, you can have an all-natural home birth the first time around (and every time after that).
  • The second labor might seem more difficult than the first. But you'll conquer it just the same!
  • As much as you'll want to love on/stare at/take in your little one that first day, you may very well feel too exhausted to do much.  That's normal!!  Have a support person/provider/post-partum doula, etc.. to take care of you and give in to your body's need for sleep!  It's the best thing you can do.
  • Your nurse/doula/midwife/doctor might become a superhero in your eyes. Who knows, maybe your birth photographer/videographer too. ;)
  • A new parent is usually more attractive to their partner in life after their baby comes into the world than they were before.
  • You'll never regret capturing this.  You will flip through the album, watch the video, etc.. again & again.  They may even help you hold onto the best moments, and heal from the hard ones. :)  
kalli@kalimana.com (Kalimana Film Stories) https://www.kalimana.com/blog/2017/2/30-birthy-things-from-your-middle-tennessee-birth-photographer-videographer Sat, 11 Feb 2017 21:20:50 GMT
embracing the documentary family photographer inside me: in Murfreesboro, Tennessee https://www.kalimana.com/blog/2016/6/embracing-the-documentary-family-photographer-inside-me-in-murfreesboro-tennessee This is the Hoeksema family.  They look a bit like perfection when you first see them - in a photo or real life.  My videographers and I chose them a while back to be the family that represents Kalimana Film Stories' business story.  Though preceded by a thorough pre-production process (by the talented duo Eugene & Heather), the video feels real. And I know many thanks are owed to this lovely family here.  They don't try to pretend they're anything they're not.  They were just what my business film needed. BTW, it will be ready within a couple weeks!

So when Rachel asked me to capture "a day in the life" for them, I was excited and intrigued. I wondered what a day would be like with this sweet family.  And without further ado, here it is.  Photos and video by Kalimana Film Stories.

This little guy spilled his juice.  The juice he doesn't normally have.  The juice he convinced his mom he needed because he wasn't feeling well. Silly Jackson.  Good at getting what he wants ... and cleaning up after himself.


Mornings at the Hoeksema household are spent playing, keeping baby sister happy, riding on cars in the kitchen, and eating snacks while mom makes breakfast. 

Presenting... Jackson's car.  The one he rides around the kitchen.  And everywhere else in the house.  In this shot he's headed to investigate my monopod that was left behind for a few minutes.   

This is what a mouth full of eggs looks like.  Ok, I'm hungry now.


Watching Ice-Age.  Yes, you can have treasured photos of your kid watching TV. This one takes my breath away. Look at those lashes.  Jackson, did you know Ice Age is one of my husband's favorite movies? High five, dude! 


Brushing teeth with your mom's necklace on.  You know, everyday stuff like that.

Thomas. Or is that Gordon?  You got me - I don't have kids yet.  But I know you like trains!


Oops.  Can't keep those things on the track.  It feels like a mini acrobatic act. 


This little girl did spectacularly in the car, but you'd think it was going to be otherwise by this face.  I love that we captured this moment. How many times each week do you put your kid in a carseat? And how many of those times to you capture it?


Napping while brother plays.  This little girl needs extra special care, and she gets it. Parenting props to Rachel & Joe.


Because walking to the car is an endeavor all by itself.

Ok Jackson, give mommy one kiss. And please, don't fall in the pond. 


Love this. Such a sweet duo.

I want the main "TO DO" on my schedule tomorrow to be blowing bubbles. Can someone arrange that for me?


And to finish it all up, the Hoeksema family's DAY IN THE LIFE film with Kalimana Film Stories! 

Love & hugs and all that good stuff!

kalli@kalimana.com (Kalimana Film Stories) Documentary family photography candid photography family video lifestyle murfreesboro family photographer nashville family photographer https://www.kalimana.com/blog/2016/6/embracing-the-documentary-family-photographer-inside-me-in-murfreesboro-tennessee Wed, 08 Jun 2016 17:46:08 GMT